💬 An intimacy that often comes after everything else
How many times does it happen that We women put the well-being of others before our own, spending more time worrying about gratifying others than ourselves?
Our feminine essence, which nourishes, protects and celebrates, sometimes it turns into a double-edged sword, influencing the way we experience (or do not experience) what we like, even during intimacy. Let's think of one of the most potentially empowering practices of all, cunnilingus, and all the taboos that still influence the way the act of to receive pleasure Without necessarily giving as much, it is perceived and experienced by people. And by us women.
🍑 Cunnilingus and the taboos that still persist
Among the most intimate and often underestimated practices is the cunnilingus.
Although it is a gesture of deep pleasure and not necessarily "performance-based", is still shrouded in prejudice:
- It is seen as a "second class" practice
- It is considered unhygienic
- It can be difficult to ask your partner
Yet, the oral stimulation It's one of the most powerful ways to connect with yourself and others, without having to prove anything. Just receive, listen, welcome.
And this is precisely where our purpose comes in: make intimate well-being a right, not a luxury.
🔥 The new generations and the desire to explore
On the one hand, very young girls seem increasingly open to exploring their sexuality.
This is also demonstrated by the boom in sex toys, especially those that reproduce oral stimulation. On the other hand, however, the path towards a true sexual liberation it's still long.
Cultural conditioning, sense of modesty and lack of education in pleasure, which hinder a truly conscious and guilt-free sexuality.
✨ Pleasure is not a performance
Letting go during an intimate moment isn't always easy.
Yet, it is precisely in relationships in which we are not called to "give" something, but simply to receive, that we can experience one of the most authentic forms of pleasure.
To do this, you need communication, body awareness and lack of shame:
✔️ Saying what we like
✔️ Recognizing what doesn't make us feel good
✔️ Learn to ask without fear
The first step? Getting to know each other.
Taking care of your intimate area, accepting your uniqueness and discovering what truly makes us feel fulfilled.
💗 Pleasure is a right. And it starts with you.
There are no right or wrong ways to experience pleasure, but there is your way.
And it deserves to be discovered, respected, celebrated.
Talking about pleasure is a revolutionary act.
Living it without shame is a gesture of self-determination!
